Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Gender Nonconformity, Homophobia, and Mental Distress in Latino Gay and Bisexual Men - JOURNAL OF SEX RESEARCH 2007, Vol. 44, No. 2, 181–189

Theo G. M. Sandfort
HIV Center for Clinical and Behavioral Studies,
New York State Psychiatric Institute
and Columbia University

Rita M. Melendez
Human Sexuality Studies and the Center for Research on Gender & Sexuality,
San Francisco State University

Rafael M. Diaz
Cesar Chavez Institute and Professor of Ethnic Studies,
San Francisco State University

This study explored whether gender nonconformity in gay and bisexual men is related to mental distress and if so, whether this relationship is mediated by negative experiences that are likely associated with gender nonconformity, including abuse and harassment. To study this question, data were analyzed from face-to face interviews with 912 self-identified gay and bisexual Latino men in three major U.S. cities collected by Diaz and colleagues (2001). Gay and bisexual Latino men who considered themselves to be effeminate had higher levels of mental distress and more frequently reported various negative experiences, compared with gay and bisexual Latino men who did not identify as effeminate. Higher levels of mental distress in effeminate men seemed to primarily result from more experiences of homophobia. Findings suggest the need for more attention to gender in research as well as counseling of sexual minority men.

Recent studies using large-scale population-based samples have shown convincingly that compared with heterosexual persons, homosexual men and women are at higher risk for mental health problems (Cochran & Mays, 2000; Cochran, Sullivan, & Mays, 2003; Fergusson, Horwood, & Beautrais, 1999; King et al., 2003; Sandfort, Bakker, Schellevis, & Vanwesembeeck, 2006; Sandfort, de Graaf, Bijl, & Schnabel, 2001; Skegg, Nada-Raja, Dickson, Paul, & Williams, 2003). For example, Cochran and colleagues (2003) found in a U.S. nationally representative survey a higher prevalence of depression, panic attacks, and psychological distress in gay and bisexual men compared to heterosexual men. In the same study, a higher prevalence of generalized anxiety disorder was found in lesbian and bisexual women compared with heterosexual women. These population-based studies, originally not designed to study mental health in relation to sexual orientation, are unable to provide evidence about the causes of the observed differences. The increased rates of mental health problems in homosexual persons are usually understood as a consequence of the stigma attached to homosexuality. This stigma can result in a range of stressful experiences, which have been labeled ‘‘minority stress.’’ Meyer (2003) conceptualizes minority stress as involving a distal-proximal dimension, with stress resulting from objective, external events and conditions, the expectations of such events and the vigilance this expectation requires, the internalization of negative social attitudes, and the concealment of one’s sexual orientation. Support for the minority stresshypothesis is found in studies that have demonstrated that gay men and lesbian women encounter varying levels of stigma, prejudice, and discrimination, and that levels of stress were indeed related to their mental health (Bradford, Ryan, & Rothblum, 1994; Brooks, 1981; Frable, Wortman, & Joseph, 1997; Meyer, 1995; Meyer & Dean, 1998; Ross, 1990; Waldo, Hesson-McInnis, & D’Augelli, 1998). For example, Herek and colleagues (1999), found that gay and bisexual men and women who had experienced victimization because of their sexual orientation (respectively 20% and 25%), manifested significantly more symptoms of depression, anger, anxiety, and posttraumatic stress.
http://cci.sfsu.edu/files/Gender%20nonconformity.pdf

Internalized homophobia and health issues affecting lesbians and gay men – by Iain R. Williamson - Health Education Research - Oxford University Press

Health Education Research, Vol. 15, No. 1, 97-107, February 2000
© 2000 Oxford University Press

School of Behavioural Studies, Nene University College Northampton, Park Campus, Boughton Green Road, Northampton NN2 7AL, UK

Abstract

This paper investigates the concept of internalized homophobia in both theory and research relating to lesbian and gay health. It offers a contemporary and critical review of research in this area, and discusses a range of recent findings relating to a range of health issues including HIV and AIDS. Whilst the concept has a resonance for gay men and lesbians, and is widely used in `lesbian and gay-affirmative' interventions, the paper demonstrates that research findings have been equivocal and the term is often used without full consideration of its sociopolitical consequences. The paper concludes that the concept does have a valuable role to play in health promotion work with lesbians and gay men but invites further discussion and examination of the construct.

Introductory remarks

This paper aims to present both an overview and critical evaluation of the usefulness of the concept of internalized homophobia1 in explaining health difficulties affecting lesbians and gay men. It has been argued by a variety of lesbian and gay social scientists that internalized homophobia has a central role as a predisposing and perpetuating factor in various aspects of ill-health, and may affect both the progression of illness and health-related decision-making processes with significant effect on the prevention of illnesses such as HIV infection. However, a number of theorists have argued that internalized homophobia is both frequently used uncritically with regard to its conceptualization and operationalization, and without due concern for its sociopolitical consequences (i.e. to repathologize the `sick' lesbian or gay individual and focus attention away from the more salient issues of cultural and institutionalized heterosexism). My aim is to provide a synthesis which examines research suggesting an important relationship between health and internalized homophobia whilst deconstructing the concept and offering a discussion of the potential effects on gay and lesbian communities in contemporary British society.

Defining anti-gay and lesbian prejudice and its internalization

There has been considerable discussion within lesbian and gay academic circles about how best to conceptualize the nature of anti-gay and lesbian prejudice. Whilst the term `homophobia' is most widely used within British society, there appears to be a consensus amongst queer3 academics that the term is in many ways unhelpful and inaccurate for a variety of reasons. These include the emphasis on the affective (fear) component of prejudice at the expense of anti-gay and lesbian cognitions, and the contextualization of prejudice within the individual rather than in society and its structures.

What do you think the impact of homophobic/transphobic bullying is, and how does it affect the victim? – PACE – pacehealth.org.uk - London

Educational Psychology Interview

Marjorie Smith is an educational psychologist who works in London. She has a special interest in LGBT issues because her children are gay. She is a member of Families Together London which provides information and support to parents of LGBT people. Evidence to support the views she gives in this interview can be found on the website http://www.familiestogetherlondon.com/.

What do you think the impact of homophobic/transphobic bullying is, and how does it affect the victim?
I think people used to think that bullying doesn’t do any harm, that it ‘toughens you up’. I don’t believe this is true at all. Victims of homophobic/transphobic bullying suffer many problems - isolation, mental health problems like depression and anxiety, an increased risk of self-harm and suicide – the list is shocking.

What do you think is the effect of the current levels of homophobic/transphobic bullying in schools? (bearing in mind that Stonewall's research suggests that 65% of LGB pupils experience bullying, and PACE's more recent research shows that 58% of LGBT pupils experience bullying)
I think bullying damages everyone involved – those who do it because they are learning to be cruel and those who look on and do nothing because they are learning to be cowards. This includes adults as well as young people.

The most serious hate crimes in recent years were committed by young people - so not challenging incidents at the school level leads to hate crime in our streets.

What do you think are the barriers to teachers challenging such behaviour?
Most teachers want to do something about homophobic/transphobic bullying, but they are uncertain as to how to deal with it and don’t feel confident that they know the right things to say. All teachers need training for this, but they also need to see good role models – senior staff talking about the issues and challenging young people on every instance of homophobic/transphobic behaviour.

PACE - is London’s leading charity promoting the mental health and emotional wellbeing of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community.

Children of LGBT parents are redefining the traditional family - August 27, 2010 - Children of Gay Parents

Children of gay parents are just as likely to succeed as children of straight parents, a new study shows.

Editor’s note: SDGLN is putting human faces to key issues of our times. Today, we take a look at parenting in the LGBT community and how children with gay or lesbian parents feel about issues they must confront, including legal hurdles and outright discrimination.

What is a “normal” family?

For years, the mainstream media has defined a “normal” family as one that has a mother and a father. This belief was even part of the argument made by supporters of California’s Proposition 8 during the recent historical trial.

But, according to children of gay and lesbian parents, “normal” cannot be defined by the gender or sexuality of parents. Instead, a “normal” family is one that is rooted in love and respect.

These children are reclaiming the word “normal” for themselves -- and for generations to come. To do that, they want the world to hear what it is like to live with gay parents.

“I didn’t realize I was different.” - Christine Sheppard, daughter of a lesbian mother

Growing up with two mothers was normal to Christine. As a young child, she didn’t realize she was any different from the other kids in her neighborhood.

In fact, she felt lucky, because unlike many of her friends who were splitting time between divorced parents, she had two moms in her house. She had the undivided attention of both women, which meant she always had someone willing to help her with her problems and share in her happiness.

Why anti-bullying programs fail to make school safer - by Elizabeth Meyer, Ph.D. - August 9, 2009 – Psychology Today

It is back-to-school time and many parents and educators are doing everything they can to ensure that their children and students have a safe, welcoming, and stimulating school environment to return to when classes begin. Many teachers and principals are already in full-time in-service meetings and workshops addressing issues related to gender and learning, bullying and school safety, as well as developing the curriculum for the first month of school. Unfortunately, most of these schools will fail in their efforts to reduce bullying because anti-bullying programs are overly generic and vague and do not directly address some of the most prevalent harmful and most ignored behaviors in schools: gendered harassment. Anti-bullying programs do not specifically talk about: sexual harassment, homophobic harassment, and harassment for gender non-conformity. So what can concerned parents and teachers do?

How is gendered harassment different from bullying?
The first step is to understand the differences in these behaviors and why schools tend to ignore them.

Gendered harassment is a term used to describe any unwanted behavior that acts to assert and police the boundaries of traditional gender norms: heterosexual masculinity and femininity. It is related to, but different from bullying. (Meyer, 2006)

Bullying is any behavior that repeatedly and over time intentionally inflicts injury on another individual (Olweus, 1993)

Harassment is any biased behavior that has a negative impact on the target or the environment and can include negative religious, racial, sexual, and homophobic behaviors (Land, 2003).
Read more:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/gender-and-schooling/200908/why-anti-bullying-programs-fail-make-school-safer

Elizabeth J. Meyer, PhD, is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Education at Concordia University in Montreal, Quebec. She is the author of Gender, Bullying, and Harassment: Strategies to End Sexism and Homophobia in Schools. She also writes for the Freire Project for Critical Pedagogy. A former high school teacher and coach, she has published articles in: Gender and Education, McGill Journal of Education, The Journal of LGBT Youth, and the Canadian Journal of Learning and Technology.

AUSCHWITZ -- CHRISTMAS 2008 -- A flashback far more severe than in --- BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN – December 26, 2008 – Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

Posted: December 26, 2008
http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2008/12/auschwitz-christmas-2008-flashback.html

Sexual orientation is about love,
being one with another human being.
Attachment Theory

Brokeback Mountain

Ennis's Flashback
An example of this is most vividly portrayed in the movie "Brokeback Mountain." It takes place when Ennis and Jack are together again for the first time in 4 years, after first meeting on Brokeback Mountain. They are sitting around a campfire in the evening and Ennis is relaxing reclining back starring up at the stars. Jack looks over at Ennis and says to him, "Is there anything interesting up there in heaven?" Ennis replies with a very pleasant smile on his face "I was just sending up a prayer of thanks." This is a very tender moment in the film, which Jack is in a way proposing to Ennis. Jack tells Ennis that "... it could be like this always, just like this, always." Ennis's face loses its smile becoming strained as he turns his face away from Jack, looks down at the ground. Ennis then begins to soberly tell Jack about this vivid flashback he is having to his early childhood days growing up. Ennis describes for Jack this disturbing scene from his past how his father took him and his brother along this pathway in the country to show them the kind of violence that happens to adult men who lived together. The traumatic psychological effects from this event with his father appear to have remained vivid throughout Ennis's adult life. It is shown in Ennis's inability to form and be in a relationship, any kind of relationship, but particularly the one with Jack, to go with Jack, and build a life together. Read more:
http://fathermartykurylowicz.blogspot.com/2008/12/homosexuality-coming-out-of-confusion_11.html

The Significance of Brokeback Mountain
by Ralph Roughton
Self Psychology News – Fall 2007

SEXUAL CONVERSION THERAPIES
Jack Drescher, M.D.

The Psychology of the Closet:
Governor McGreevey's New Clothes
by Jack Drescher, M.D. – August 27, 2004

Vatican Asking For Male Prostitutes –
“Naturam expellas furca, tamen usque recurret.”
Though you drive Nature out
with a pitchfork,
she will still find her way back.

Homophobia- American Psychoanalytic Foundation Public Forum
Ralph Roughton, M.D. 1999

The Closet: Psychological Issues of Being In and Coming Out
By Jack Drescher, M.D. - October 1, 2004

The Pope Is Not Gay
Andrew Sullivan – The Daily Dish
The Atlantic

The Psychology of the Closeted Individual and Coming Out – 2007
by Jack Drescher, M.D.

Psychoanalysis & Homosexuality at the postmodern millennium
by Jack Drescher M.D.

Homosexuality: Coming out of the confusion,
by Sidney H. Phillips, M.D. --- Part 1 of 5

Perpetuation of Generational Violence On Children -- Who Grow Up to Be Gay
Kids Are Being Hurt!!!


____________ AUSCHWITZ -- CHRISTMAS 2008
A flashback far more severe than in -
BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN
December 26, 2008 – Fr. Marty Kurylowicz ____________

Dear Fr. Geoff Farrow,

I have been so saddened by Pope Benedict XVI's cruel words to LGBTQ people around the world, to their parents, families and friends, most ESPECIALLY TO CHILDREN. After reading the accounts of this human travesty, I did not know where to find comfort or hope. And then I thought about your blog. And just like receiving a wonderful Christmas present, sure enough I found the hope and comfort I needed to hear.

I am a priest and a clinical psychologist (MS). And for one of my research projects I chose to do a qualitative research project of the recorded verbal accounts of survivors of the Holocaust, 50 years after the event. It was a difficult research project, because I could not make sense of one of the accounts of the survivors.

For example, one survivor was describing what it was like riding the train to AUSCHWITZ, but he was describing how he was trying to make conversation with a girl on the train. I listened and wrote out this one account almost 30 times but I just was not getting it. I could not understand how this man could be talking about wanting to make conversation with this girl on the same train to AUSCHWITZ!?!

Because I had taught high school religion classes for nearly 20 years, it hit me hard, like a flash of lightning. Instantly, all the pieces came together, so fast. Though this survivor was in his late 60’s when he gave his account of his story on audiotape, he was remembering the events that took place, but naturally they were recounted through the mind of a teenager, the age he was on the train to AUSCHWITZ. That is why the dialogue wasn’t making any sense. I was thinking of him as an old man because the voice on the audiotape was the voice of a 68-year-old. As shocking as a bomb going off, all the different aspects of the psychological developmental stages of a teenager kicked in. I realized only too fully that he was just a young normal teenager on that train!!! And so was the girl he was trying to make conversation, and their moms and dads were there with them!!! There was no way to pretend I did not realize what I discovered. It kept hitting me: this is not some script from a movie or TV miniseries on the Holocaust. No; as much as I wished it were. The reality of this horror hit me all at once, on so many different levels of consciousness: what an unbelievable horror it was!!! How could we treat human beings like this! I remember when the realization of the magnitude of this horror first hit me, like an instant reflex. I threw down the transcript I was holding as if it were a blazing hot poker. It kept hitting me over and over again that this is not a movie script or some kind of play – this really happened! It really happened! Oh, my God, how could this have happened!?!!!

My supervisor told me at the time that I was traumatized by the oral content. Qualitative research is an attempt to understand the complexity of emotions, the kinds of emotions, and the degree of intensity involved. Our emotions are what allow us to connect with other human beings. We identify with the non-verbal quality of emotions more immediately and strongly than with the words used to express them. The non-verbal qualities include tone of voice, eye contact, facial expression, body posture, and gestures, all of which express emotions. Emotions are why we can connect with people through time, across cultures, and individually. It is the expression of human emotions in the arts that makes some works of art timeless, because they continually speak to all people through the ages.

And when I heard what Pope Benedict XVI said about homosexuals and transgendered human beings at Christmas 2008, I felt that same trauma all over again. Because in some way, somehow, he was conveying in a non-verbal manner the horror of the Holocaust, in what appears to be a traumatized, trance-like, accepted social norm from that period of time dictating that some people just don’t count, aren’t important, and can be easily disposed of. And if you rock the boat, you could be next to be disposed of.

I truly have to believe that a person in his position would not be doing this consciously or intentionally. The horror of the Holocaust is like an atomic bomb with fallout so extensive that it spreads over a radius of more than 150 miles. The horror of the Holocaust began in 1933 and ended in 1945. The psychological fallout would have been far more extensive and more deadly, especially when it is not identified as such.

It hit me the way it did when I realized that the research I was doing about a Holocaust survivor, a man 68 years old telling his story, who was remembering what it was like to be on the train to AUSCHWITZ, from the perspective of a young teenage boy who just wanted to talk to a girl. It seemed like the same kind of horror, a tacit assumption that some people don't count and can be disposed of without remorse. Could it be that Benedict XVI is unconsciously repeating Hitler's crime against humanity by taking on a long-accepted social attitude from that period of time?

The question I asked myself was: what would it have been like for someone growing up gay during the Nazi Persecution of Homosexuals 1933 -1945?

What would be the severity of the psychological effects on a boy who grew up to be gay in Germany during the time of Hitler’s NAZI PERSECUTION OF HOMOSEXUALS 1933 -1945? During the Nazi regime, homosexuals were publicly defamed and falsely accused for the major social problems of that time, which was done to incite massive public hatred and hostility directed against homosexuals. Homosexuals were used for medical experiments, physically mutilated, brutally tortured and exterminated.

Would this child, as an adult, in a severe dissociated state of mind from his own homosexual feelings (Harry Stack Sullivan MD, Dissociative Processes, Clinical Studies on Psychiatry (1956)), unconsciously perpetuate the terrifying horror of the insensitivity he had experienced growing up? If he found himself in a position of authority would he recreate the same social and political environment of violence and terror for homosexuals that he experienced, as a child who grew up to be gay, during the NAZI PERSECUTION OF HOMOSEXUALS?

I think in truth on a much deeper level I was frightened, really frightened, to hear Pope Benedict XVI’s Christmas remarks against homosexuals and transgendered human beings and even more frightened by the silence from the larger global community of human beings. What is so frightening is, even if there is agreement that one person does not matter or is not important, in truth then no one matters. Therefore, when I thought about your blog and what you did on October 5, 2008, I felt more reassured, I felt hope, and I felt comforted. NOW, isn’t that the true meaning of Christmas?

God Bless you,
Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

. . . .Written by Martin S. Kurylowicz, M.Div., M.S.
Edited by Madeline Wright, Ph.D., M.S. . . . .


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Why Bother About Homosexuals?
Homophobia and Sexual Politics in Nazi Germany (2002)
by Geoffrey J. Giles explanation of Hitler’s immediate action taken against gays, when he came to power, accounts of the inhuman treatment of gays.

Roman Catholic - Hierarchy Child Sexual Abuse “Cover-Ups” Ordered By Benedict XVI To Avoid Public Outrage & Criminal Charges - Falsely Accused Gay Priests - WATERGATE?
December 17, 2009 - by Fr. Marty Kurylowicz
&

Who Can Mock This Church?
By Nicholas D. Kristof – The New York Times

Hurricane Katrina - Nancy Pelosi - Washington, DC – 2005
&
Accountability Benedict XVI Child Sexual Abuse
 = Looking For Leadership in a Storm!!!

Gay Marriage - “SEPARATION BETWEEN CHURCH AND STATE” Does Not Give Churches Or Benedict XVI The Freedom To Abuse Children or Adults.
July 2010 - By Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

www.vatican.va. - Benedict XVI - Cardinal Ratzinger on April 19, 2005,
was elected as the successor to Pope John Paul II.

CBS News, Ratzinger On Abuse, Celibacy, Gays - - April 19, 2005 | by Christine Lagorio,
A Collection Of
Quotations By Newly Named Pope Benedict XVI

Human Rights Campaign - Election of Pope Benedict XVI Portends Further Conflict Between Church and GLBT Community 4/19/2005 - WASHINGTON
The Human Rights Campaign pointed to years of statements by Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, the newly elected pope, in expressing concern about the Catholic Church’s future treatment of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people.

Advocate.Com - April 20, 2005
 New pope on homosexuality: "Intrinsic moral evil"

Southern Voice - Gay Catholics dismayed by Pope Benedict XVI
By DYANA BAGBY APR. 22, 2005
Joseph Cardinal Ratzinger, the man who described homosexuality as “an intrinsic moral evil,” emerged at dusk on Tuesday on to the balcony of St. Peter’s Square, drawing cheers from the thousands gathered as the 265th pope announced his new name, Benedict XVI.


Washington Post Foreign Service,
Saturday October 8, 2005 , ROME,
Rules Affirm Pope Benedict's Stance Against Gays
by Daniel Williams
In the first five months of Pope Benedict XVI's reign, stern opposition to homosexuality in and outside the Roman Catholic Church has quickly become a prime public message for the Vatican.

Cable News Network (CNN) Monday, November 28, 2005
-- In an eagerly awaited document, the Vatican has reiterated its policy against gay priests, but has said it would allow those who have "clearly overcome" homosexual tendencies to start the process of becoming a priest

Slate Magazine - Gland Inquisitor Pope Benedict's antigay tendencies.
By William Saletan Posted Tuesday, Nov. 29, 2005, at 12:46 AM ET
- The Vatican's new policy on gay priests has been leaked.
Officially, it proposes the incorrigibility of deeply rooted gay tendencies.
Unofficially, it exposes the deeply rooted,
incorrigible antigay tendencies of Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger, aka Pope Benedict XVI.

Blog Out - Just Out Newspaper - Does the Vatican Support Criminalizing, Executing Homosexuals? December 2nd, 2008 at 11:15 am by Jim Radosta
- That’s the message that Pope Benedict XVI seems to be sending: The Vatican is trying to block a nonbinding proposed U.N. resolution calling on governments worldwide to decriminalize homosexuality, claiming that it will start a “slippery slope” toward same-sex marriage.

365gay Pope celebrates Human Rights Day while opposing gay rights
By 365gay Newscenter Staff 12.12.2008 8:35am EST - (Vatican City)
At the Vatican, Pope Benedict XVI paid tribute to the Universal Declaration of Human Rights; but elsewhere, LGBT civil rights groups were denouncing the pope’s opposition to expanding the 60-year-old United Nations document to include gays.

Task Force
December 22, 2008 National Religious Leadership Roundtable condemns pope’s remarks denouncing gender theory - WASHINGTON, Dec. 22
— The National Religious Leadership Roundtable, convened by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, condemns today’s remarks by Pope Benedict XVI that denounced gender theory, saying it could lead to humanity’s “self-destruction.” Gender theory explores sexual orientation, the roles assigned by society to individuals according to their gender and how people perceive their identity.

ABC News (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)
 Pope wants humanity 'saved' from homosexuality Dec 23, 2008
- Pope Benedict XVI says saving humanity from homosexual or transsexual behaviour is just as important as saving the rainforest from destruction.

BBC - Tuesday, 23 December 2008, Pope attacks blurring of gender
- Pope Benedict XVI has suggested that the need to save mankind from a destructive blurring of gender roles is as important as saving the rainforests.

Times Online, December 23, 2008
Pope accused of stoking homophobia after he equates homosexuality to climate change
"There are still so many instances of people being killed around the world, including in Western society, purely and simply because of their sexual orientation or their gender identity.
"When you have religious leaders like that making that sort of statement then followers feel they are justified in behaving in an aggressive and violent way because they feel that they are doing God’s work in ridding the world of these people."

SFGate.com December 23 2008 at 05:35 AM
Pope Benedict at Christmas: Preaching bigotry disguised as compassion
by Edward M. Gomez

Gay Rights - Pope Benedict XVI: How Gays are Like the Rainforest
by Michael A. Jones December 22, 2008 @ 09:45AM PST
- In the (not-so) spirit of the holidays,
Pope Benedict XVI gave a Christmas address to the Vatican's Central Administration (known as the Curia), where he called homosexuality unnatural and
"a destruction of God's work."

REUTERS UK, Mon Dec 22, 2008
Pope likens "saving" gays to saving the rainforest
The Catholic Church teaches that while homosexuality is not sinful, homosexual acts are.
It opposes gay marriage and, in October,
a leading Vatican official called homosexuality "a deviation, an irregularity, a wound."
He also defended the Church's right to
"speak of human nature as man and woman,
and ask that this order of creation be respected."

The Canadian December 22, 2008,
- Pope Benedict XVI declares clerical agenda against homosexuals and transsexuals.

guardian.co.uk - A whiff of hypocrisy in pope's pronouncement
by Stephen Bates Tuesday 23 December 2008 15.22

NowPublic - Pope Says Gays as Dangerous as Climate Change
by Rob Walker | December 23, 2008 at 08:44 am
- The internet is abuzz today after remarks from Pope Benedict XVI's speech yesterday, where he declared that saving humanity from homosexuality was just as important as saving the rainforest from destruction.

SKY NEWS, Pope: 'Save The World From Gays' 9:34am UK, Tuesday December 23, 2008
Benedict XVI described relationships that are not heterosexual as "a destruction of God's work", during his Christmas speech to the Curia, the administrative body of the Catholic Church. .. "(The Church) should also protect man from the destruction of himself. A sort of ecology of man is needed," he said.

The New York Times, The Vatican: In Speech, Pope Calls Homosexual Behavior a Violation,
By Rachel Donadio, Published: December 22, 2008
Pope Benedict XVI spoke out Monday against homosexual behavior, calling it a violation of the natural order. In an address to the Vatican hierarchy, the pope called for an “ecology of man” to protect man from “the destruction of himself.” He added, “The rain forests deserve our protection, but man as a creature indeed deserves no less.” The Vatican opposes same-sex marriage and considers homosexual acts sinful.

Truthdig - POPE: HOMOSEXUALITY IS UNNATURAL
Posted on Dec 22, 2008

Telegraph.co.uk by Nick Allen: 7:31PM GMT 23 Dec 2008
Pope says humanity needs 'saving' from homosexuality
… Pope Benedict XVI sparked a furious reaction from other Christian groups as he also suggested that a blurring of the distinction between male and female could lead to the "self-destruction" of the human race.

China Daily, Gays outraged by pope's 'homophobic attack' (Agencies) Updated: 2008-12-24 09:43 VATICAN CITY – A suggestion by Pope Benedict XVI that homosexuality is as much of a threat to the survival of the human race as climate change sparked outrage among gay rights campaigners on Tuesday… "The Vatican talks about homosexuality or transsexuality as if it were a whim, never as suffering," Hofer said, adding that the Roman Catholic Church "reduces sexual orientation to the sexual act as if it had nothing to do with a person's identity."

The Bilerico Project - All Powerful Trannies Threaten Humanity
December 24, 2008 2:00 PM by: Brynn Craffey
- In his end-of-year address to senior Vatican staff, Pope Benedict XVI, head of the 1.13 billion person-strong Catholic Church, has warned of the dangers of "gender theory," saying it threatens humanity's existence and equating its potential destructive power to that of the disappearing rain forests.

Couriermail.comau December 24, 2008 08:55pm
Pope Benedict XVI uses Christmas message to attack gays OPENLY gay Australian Greens leader Bob Brown has joined the world-wide chorus of condemnation directed at Pope Benedict XVI, after the Catholic leader suggested homosexuality was as much a threat to the survival of the human race as climate change.
In his end-of-year speech at the Vatican on Monday, the Pope said gender theory blurred the distinction between male and female, and he called for "an ecology of the human being" to protect mankind "from self-destruction".

World New/The Manila Times, Thursday, December 25, 2008
Gays outraged by ‘homophobic 
attack’ of Pope Benedict XVI
- 
VATICAN CITY: A suggestion by Pope Benedict XVI that homosexuality is as much of a threat to the survival of the human race as climate change sparked outrage among gay rights campaigners on Tuesday.

PinkNews.co.uk - Amnesty asks Pope to defend gay rights
By Jessica Geen • March 19, 2009 - 11:53
Amnesty International has urged Pope Benedict XVI to condemn the criminalisation of homosexuality when he meets with African bishops today in Cameroon.

"Kids Are Being Hurt !!!"

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Vatican Scapegoats Gays and Leaves Criminals Unaccountable
Human Rights Campaign - September 15, 2002

Shifting the blame:
the Vatican's campaign to purge gay men
from Catholic seminaries is an attempt to
shift the blame for the sexual abuse scandal away from the bishops - 2006

New Catholic Sex Abuse Findings: Gay Priests Are Not the Problem
 by DAVID GIBSON – Politics Daily - November 18, 2009

Report: Sexual orientation not a factor in priest sex abuse
Philadelphia Gay News - Jen Colletta

Child Protection Service of the Archdiocese of Dublin, November 2009 -Report by Commission of Investigation into the handling by Church and State authorities of allegations and suspicions of child abuse against clerics of the Catholic Archdiocese of Dublin.
Read complete report->Report by Commission of Investigation into
Catholic Archdiocese of Dublin

Murphy report is only the beginning
The Sunday Times – Times Online, November 29, 2009

Murphy Report: Background And Composition
– by PATSY MCGARRY AND CAROL COULTER
The Irish Times – November 27, 2009

Catholic Church in Ireland given immunity for child sexual abuse cover-up, report says, 26, November 2009 – Telegraph.co.uk

Pope 'led cover-up of child abuse by priests'
– London Evening Standard – standard.co.uk

Irish Church accused of abuse cover-up
 BBC News, 26 November 2009

Open letter to nuncio calls on pope to remove bishops
by GENEVIEVE CARBERY - The Irish Times

AUSCHWITZ * FLASHBACK, AGAIN!!!
*** Love is NEVER a Threat
– Hate is ALWAYS a Threat - To Everyone!!! ->Part 2

AUSCHWITZ * FLASHBACK, AGAIN!!!
*** Love is NEVER a Threat
– Hate is ALWAYS a Threat - To Everyone!!! -> PART I

US Catholic Bishops
threaten the moral 'fabric of society' and
the sanctity Gay unions – 2009

Report: Homosexuality No Factor in Abusive Priests
By RACHEL ZOLL - ABC News – 2009

"Kids Are Being Hurt !!!"

The Significance of Brokeback Mountain
by Ralph Roughton
Self Psychology News – Fall 2007

Brokeback Mountain

Homophobia- American Psychoanalytic Foundation Public Forum
Ralph Roughton, M.D. 1999

Human Sexuality -> Astonishing Complexities, Variations And Wonder
October 20, 2009 – Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

Roman Catholic - Hierarchy Child Sexual Abuse “Cover-Ups” Ordered By Benedict XVI To Avoid Public Outrage & Criminal Charges - Falsely Accused Gay Priests - WATERGATE? December 17, 2009 - by Fr. Marty Kurylowicz
&

Hurricane Katrina - Nancy Pelosi - Washington, DC – 2005
&
Accountability Benedict XVI Child Sexual Abuse
= Looking For Leadership in a Storm!!!

Who Can Mock This Church?
By Nicholas D. Kristof – The New York Times

SEXUAL CONVERSION THERAPIES
Jack Drescher, M.D.

The Psychology of the Closet:
Governor McGreevey's New Clothes
by Jack Drescher, M.D. – August 27, 2004

Vatican Asking For Male Prostitutes –
“Naturam expellas furca, tamen usque recurret.”
Though you drive Nature out
with a pitchfork,
she will still find her way back.

Is It Possible to Be Against Same-Sex Marriage
Without Being Homophobic?
Carlos A. Ball
Professor of Law at Rutgers University
August 24, 2010 – Huffington Post

The Closet: Psychological Issues of Being In and Coming Out
By Jack Drescher, M.D. - October 1, 2004

The Pope Is Not Gay
Andrew Sullivan – The Daily Dish
The Atlantic

The Psychology of the Closeted Individual and Coming Out – 2007
by Jack Drescher, M.D.

To Be Catholic or Not To be Catholic
by Fr. Marty Kurylowicz – September 30, 2009

Heterosexism and homophobia
Different in More Ways Than One:
Providing Guidance for Teenagers on Their Way to Identity, Sexuality and Respect
"TRIANGLE"

Structural Violence Section Introduction
Peace, conflict, and violence:
Peace psychology in the 21st century
Daniel Christie

Structural Violence:
RELIGION AND CONFLICT
Luc Reychler
Introduction: Towards a Religion of World Politics?
The International Journal of Peace Studies

California - Prop 8 judgment, August 4, 2010
Gay marriage
“Religious beliefs that gay and lesbian relationships are sinful or inferior to heterosexual relationships harm gays and lesbians.”
Judge Vaughn Walker

On Prop 8, it's the evidence, stupid
By Lisa Bloom
CNN.com -
and related links:

Prop 8 ruled unconstitutional as lacking rational basis
Nan Hunter - Professor, Georgetown Law,
Washington, DC
hunter of justice

Gay Marriage Ruling A Matter of Simple Justice
by Geoffrey R. Stone
law professor at the University of Chicago
Chicago Tribune

Gay Marriage -> Restores
“Hope of Love”
To Children In Early Childhood

Sexual orientation is less about sex and more about love,
being one with another human being - Attachment Theory
LOVE & RELIGION
Gay Marriage

Gay Marriage - Galileo Condemned As A Heretic -
Misinterpretations of The Bible
Homosexuality?
Natural Law?
Benedict XVI?
Kids Are Being Hurt!!!

SEXUAL CONVERSION THERAPIES
Jack Drescher, M.D.

Religious Groups' Official Positions on Same-Sex Marriage
Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life – July 27, 2010

Gay Marriage & Homosexuality
Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life

Church of Scotland admits institutional homophobia
April 25, 2007 - Ekklesia

"No sensible person can imagine that the
sexes differ
in matters of love as they do in matters of clothing.
The intelligent lover of beauty will be attracted to beauty in whichever gender he finds it."
Plutarch

The Quality Of Lasting Homosexual Relationships
Deserve Respect
Roman Catholic -->Cardinal Christoph Schönborn,
Vienna

Gramick: Equality is a Catholic value
by David Taffet – Dallas Voice

Campaigns Against “Gay Marriage” Have Been A Vehicle To Convey Certain People Into Political Office

Karl Rove… "had been working with Republicans to make sure that anti-gay initiatives and referenda would appear on November ballots in 2004 and 2006 to help Republicans." Ken Mehlman
August 25, 2010
The Atlantic
Bush Campaign Chief and Former RNC Chair Ken Mehlman:
I'm Gay – by Marc Ambinder - The Atlantic

Gay Marriage
Truth Will Set Us Free
Not Ignorance and Fear
by Fr. Marty Kurylowicz – October 2, 2009

Hate Crime Bill vs Attacks But No Facts -> Fear And Ignorance Of
The Blind Leading The Blind
October 27, 2009 – Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

ANTI-GAY/LESBIAN VIOLENCE IN THE UNITED STATES
Bianca Cody Murphy
Peace Psychology for the 21st Century

No one individual, no religion, no one has the right to hurt anyone, especially children
Kids are being hurt !!!
By Fr. Marty Kurylowicz – July 22, 2009

Institutional homophobia (or heterosexism)
Edith Cowan University Western Australia

HOMOPHOBIA
Edith Cowan University Western Australia

Structural Violence Section Introduction
Peace, conflict, and violence:
Peace psychology in the 21st century
Daniel Christie

Sexing political identities/ National as Heterosexism
V. Spike Peterson - University of Arizona
International Feminist Journal of Politics, 1:1 June 1999, 34–65

Structural Violence
Dr. N.V.S.Suryanarayana
August 19, 2010
Psyspeak, Human Behavior on Social Media

Peace Psychology Book
Daniel Christie

Dan Christie
Professor of Psychology at Ohio State University

Why not allow gay marriage?
Dr. Brian Mustanski – November 28, 2008
Psychology Today
Arguments against same sex marriage not supported by evidence

Lessons from a Gay Marriage
Marian M. Jones, Ph.D. – May 1, 1997
Psychology Today

American Psychological Association
reiterates support for same-sex marriage
August 11, 2010

Early Childhood Development – Your Options – How Do I Know If My Child Is Transgender? By Stephanie Brill and Caitlin Ryan, PhD, ACSW
National Association of Social Workers

GENDER SPECTRUM
provides education, training and support to help create a gender sensitive and inclusive environment for all children and teens
Stephanie Brill, PhD. - Executive Director

The New Gay Teenager - Google Books Result

Mom, Dad I'm Gay : How Families Negotiate Coming Out
by Ritch C. Savin-Williams

Ritch Savin-Williams
is professor and chair of
Human Development at Cornell University

The Sex & Gender Lab
Cornell University’s Department of Human Development

(How) Does the Sexual Orientation of Parents Matter?
Judith Stacey; Timothy J. Biblarz
American Sociological Review, Vol. 66, No. 2. (Apr., 2001), pp. 159-183.

DOES A PARENT'S GENDER IMPACT A CHILD'S SUCCESS? -
By Cristen Conger – January 28, 2010
Discovery News

Parents of Gay Children and Courtesy Stigma
by Michael C. LaSala, Ph.D. – August 15, 2010
Psychology Today

Gay Marriage's Biggest Supporters: Children of Gay Parents
By Sarah Wildman
Politics Daily

Reading, writing, ’rithmetic, and reaching out
by Dana Rudolph
Bay Windows

Children with Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Parents
American Academy of Child Adolescent Psychiatry

AUSCHWITZ -- CHRISTMAS 2008 -- A flashback far more severe than in
--- BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN
– December 26, 2008 – Fr. Marty Kurylowicz

“Someday, maybe, there will exist a well-informed, well considered and yet fervent public conviction that the most deadly of all possible sins is the mutilation of a child’s spirit.”
Erik Erikson

…whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck, and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.
Matthew 18:6

Important note: No disrespect meant to Pope Benedict XVI or the hierarchy, the one and only concern is the safety and well-being of children.
Kids Are Being Hurt !!